The Whole Picture
by Charlotte Savage
I once read, “A picture is worth a thousand words,” and I heartily believe that to be true as seen in the picture above.
It was in November of 2015 that I flew into Texas to visit my son Barry, his wife Gail, my granddaughter Jamie, and her two children Hailey age nine and William who was seven.
Arriving at the airport I wondered if my great-grandchildren would remember me. I hadn’t seen them for two years. Perhaps Hailey might—but I questioned if William would.
Gail, accompanied by Hailey and William met me inside the airport. I was amazed at how much Hailey and William had grown. Hailey, tall for her age, was very slim with long flowing blond hair while William had brown hair and long lashes covering large expressive eyes. I asked if they remembered me.
“I remember you,” said William, “we played games the last time you visited us and we had lots of fun.” Hailey nodded in agreement.
On the drive home the children sang a song for me naming all of the United States. William proudly announced he could even do them backwards-- which he did-- with a little help from his sister. I learned that they had a sleep--over at their Grammy’s house every Thursday night, the night their mom worked late. Since it was Thursday we would all be together until Grammy drove them to school the next morning.
When we arrived at their home, my daughter–in-law Gail reminded the children they needed to do their next day’s homework before dinner. Since it was close to the dinner hour Gail worked with Hailey on her English homework while I helped William with his arithmetic. Because William was taught math by a different method than I, he showed me his method. It didn’t take me long to realize William was using neither method. He mostly did the addition and subtraction in his head--probably because he has so much energy to expend that anything that was time consuming would not hold his attention for very long. He explained that his teacher required him to show how he got the answer; so first he figured the answer in his head and then he went back and made little circles to represent each number and then counted the circles to prove his answer.
Hailey on the other hand had a lot more patience and completed her work in a timely manner. Grammy allowed them free time to draw or paint once their homework was completed. Something they both enjoyed doing.
After dinner Hailey told me she had a surprise for me. It was a picture she had drawn of the two of us. It showed a young child with straight hair wearing a dress and that of an adult with very short curly hair wearing earrings and we were holding hands and smiling. It was the nicest welcome I had ever received and it was so appreciated. I looked at my nine year old great--granddaughter in awe; though I am an artist I tend to paint pictures of flowers and landscapes. Hailey had actually captured us in a simple pencil drawing.
I told Hailey that I would treasure her gift forever and it would be framed and hung when I returned home. I suggested that she sign her art because that is what true artists do. Her little pixie face showed delight as she carefully printed her name.
In the weeks that followed I had the opportunity to spend quality time with these two great--grandchildren. On the weekend the children asked my son Barry to take them to the bug park. I wondered what a bug park was. Arriving at a children’s playground a mile from his home the answer was obvious. There was a miniature car with room for two children to sit inside it. The car was built in the replica of a lady bug. It moved from side to side and circled around as they shifted their weight. They never got tired of riding on it. When it was time to leave they would ask if they could have a turn on the swings. They would call out to Barry—“Push harder, Papa Bear”-- as he pushed them higher and higher. Barry like his dad is a Pied Piper that all children love to be with.
I truly enjoyed William’s happy, energetic demeanor, the way he was at ease with both friends and strangers alike whom he chatted with constantly no matter where we went. Even more so, I enjoyed watching the interplay between Hailey and her little brother. I saw how Hailey often played the big sister and was very kind and patient to her younger brother. I also saw the respect that William showed for Hailey. Whenever he didn’t understand something he went to her for the answer and if her answer was too brief they would sit side by side and discuss the subject further. Sometimes they searched the internet together if William had more questions.
Before I returned home, some five weeks later, I asked William how it felt to have an older sister looking out for him. He didn’t answer me right away; he thought about it for a couple of minutes. Finally he responded, “It’s nice to have an older sister most of the time; the only time it isn’t fun is when Hailey gets too bossy-- and she tends to be bossy a lot.” Then he gave me one of his innocent disarming smiles that he uses whenever he is teasing his sister. I chuckled and told my adorable great-grandson that I had heard similar complaints from my own little brother when I was younger. The incredulous look William gave me was---you mean you were once as young as me!
However, it was followed by a quick wink from William--which told me that he knew I understood him –and that, in fact, I got the whole picture!
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