Bubbie's Kitchen on the Sabbath

by Charlotte Savage

Today, Friday, is a day of preparation for the Sabbath in my Grandmother’s home, the center of her universe. 

The parlor is freshly vacuumed, furniture polished, her lace curtains are hand laundered and dried on stretchers in the sun.

The huge black kitchen stove is newly polished, its chrome trim buffed to a mirror finish.  The linoleum floor washed and waxed; then covered with yesterday’s newspapers to keep it clean.

Bubbie is dressed in a freshly laundered starched and ironed house dress; she covers her ample body with a large apron while preparing for our Sabbath dinner.

On the back burner of the stove is a huge pot of chicken soup. Our family commonly refers to chicken soup as ‘Bubbie’s Jewish Penicillin’.  The soup is chock full of carrots, celery, onions, and parsnip. Other than the Sabbath, or other special holidays, it is served to us in steaming bowls at the first sign of a cough or a sneeze.

Chicken stuffed with her delicious bread and apple stuffing is roasting in the oven. Carrot Tzimmes, a casserole made with carrots, sweet and white potatoes, flank steak and slightly sweetened with honey slowly simmers on the stove. Meanwhile, Bubbie sautés liver and onions and boils eggs in preparation for making chopped liver in her wooden bowl.

Bubbie is widely acclaimed for her Strudel, a delicious pastry made with a mixture of three different kinds of jams, chopped walnuts, raisins, cinnamon and sugar.  Bubbie rolls the dough paper thin in the same manner as a jelly roll and sprinkles it with cinnamon and sugar; the jam and nuts are spread on last, a mouthwatering delicate pastry.

A Compote of prunes, apricots and yellow and black raisins laced with cinnamon and lemon completes Bubbie’s homemade remedy to keep everyone regular.

As dusk approaches, I, her granddaughter arrive early to set the large oval table, a table that is Bubbie’s work area by day; now this same table is adorned with Bubbie’s spotless white linen tablecloth, gleaming silver, crystal wine goblets and best china that is saved for the Sabbath and other special occasions. The symbolic Challah, the braided bread, is covered with an embroidered linen cloth until the meal is served.

Children, grandchildren, and guests arrive before sundown and are seated at the table.  Bubbie places her silk shawl over her gray hair, her face aglow in the light from the candles as she welcomes in the Sabbath; while giving thanks to God that these candles bring light into her home and joy into her life.

Zadie, my grandfather, sits at the head of the table.  He is a short chubby man with a fringe of gray hair, a baker by trade, with a gentle voice and eyes that light up when he sees his grandchildren. He calls me ‘Mamala,’ a term of endearment.  I am named after his mother.  The Challah, which he has brought home from the bakery where he is employed, will be used in the traditional Ha Motzi, the ritual of thanking God for the bread on his table. Breaking off a large piece of Challah, he tears off a small piece for himself and then passes the larger piece around the table for all to share.

Holding his silver goblet high, the goblet given to him in Poland when he was a thirteen year old Bar Mitzvah boy, he recites the prayer thanking God for the fruit of the vine. We all lift our glasses in unison gratefully acknowledging our gratitude to God for the food we are about to partake in and the gift of the Sabbath.

The sumptuous meal is served while our families chat about current events and family matters.  Occasionally there is a reference to a remembrance of my grandparent’s childhood days in Poland when they sat at their parent’s table.  Bubbie’s table is always warm and comforting at any time--but especially so on the Sabbath.

Dessert is served and Zadie chants another prayer of Thanks to God, for the food he has provided for his family.  Holding his wine glass high once again, he shouts the joyful words “Good Shabbos.” (Peace to all on the Sabbath.)  

“Good Shabbos” rings out from adults and children alike as together we share the joy of the Sabbath around the big oval table in my Bubbie’s kitchen.

An excerpt from: 

An Unusual Memoir

Hell's Angels: A Free Car Repair

by Ken Roy

"Another day in paradise". At least that’s what I thought, living in Santa Clara Valley back in the early 60’s. We had near perfect weather, apricot orchards everywhere, minimal traffic congestion, and it was just a great place to live. I went there on a business trip twenty years later and hardly recognized anything. New highways were everywhere with endless electronics companies on every street corner and the orchards had disappeared. A brief moment of sadness overtook me, as it seemed this paradise was gone forever. I can’t imagine what it’s like today with its transformation to Silicon Valley. Oh well, change is the price of the often quixotic future.

I bought an Austin Healey Sprite once it was clear that my ‘better half" had taken sole possession of the family car. The Sprite was truly a joy to drive and a tune up was relatively cheap and easy. Not like today’s cars, where you lift up the hood and probably can't identify anything more than the engine. The perfect car for California living.

Since my wife was taking classes at the local college, I had plenty of free time to indulge one of my favorite pastimes, which was to drive on the Skyline. This is a road high in the Santa Cruz Mountains; a roller coaster with all kinds of dips, curves, straight-aways and minimal traffic: perfect for "pretend" sports car racing. One day I was cruising along at a good clip when my little Healey decided to quit running. Luckily it happened near a turnoff and I just coasted to a stop.

As I was pondering what to do next, a terrifying roar of motorcycle engines overtook the peace and quiet. When I looked, there were at least a couple dozen motorcycles bearing down the Skyline toward me. I was somewhat mesmerized by the scene, but waved, shrugged and gave a comic rising of my palms. In retrospect, this gesture probably implied I needed help. To my surprise and shock they pulled to a stop next to my car. It didn’t occur to me that I might have a problem until I noticed they all were wearing leather jackets clearly marked "HELLS ANGELS, OAKLAND, CALIFORNIA". I knew of the club's reputation but never thought much about it. To me, their activities had been on another planet. But not today, maybe I was in for some trouble on this day in "paradise".

On many drives in the mountains, I often would pass a band of motorcycles flying the Hells Angels colors. They were a grungy looking bunch but never a threatening issue for me. From what I knew, they were usually going somewhere to drink too much and cause pain to themselves and probably to anyone else who crossed their path. Today they were up close, looking pretty rough, and most were in need of a shave and a bath. One guy caught my eye and sent a shiver down my spine. He had a cowering evil stare that was very unnerving. It seemed like his eyes were too close together and capable of producing a death ray if he was so inclined. Another biker had a strange body odor that I picked up from several feet away. A revolting smell, that almost brought tears to my eyes. Several others, with various tattoos and missing teeth, looked at me like I was their next meal. I kept my mouth shut, being in a state of shock and sheer fright. Taking off running was not an option since there was no place to go. When the lead guy got off his bike and approached my car, I’m thinking, "What’s he got in mind?"

To my complete surprise, in a gruff but friendly tone, he said, "Need some help?"

My fear factor subsided somewhat and I stammered out, "Shhuuuure, the car just quit running."

"Let me take a look," he replied.

He strolled over to the car and within a few moments, the hood was up. Before I could catch my breath, he right away noticed that the throttle linkage was off the carburetor. He snapped it back in place and told me to start the car. It roared back to life. I thanked him profusely and offered him some money for his help.

He looked at me in a strange way and said, "Forget it". We shook hands and no more was said as I prayed they would quickly leave. My prayers were answered as he got on his Harley and they all took off in a cloud of noise.

I always wondered if this was Sonny Barger, the notorious leader of the Oakland Hells Angels. It must have been since as his legend grew it became known that the Angels partied at Ken Kesey's (author of "One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest") home in La Honda, which was on the Skyline and a mecca for the drug-fueled lifestyle of the 60’s.

Anyway, I sure was thankful for my free car repair.

The Nicest People

by Gail Balentine

On a frigid Sunday in February, we planned a short trip to the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston to see a specific exhibit. Knowing the museum gets crowded later in the morning on weekends, we arrived just after the doors opened and had the exhibit mostly to ourselves to enjoy at a leisurely pace, followed by an early lunch at the museum’s café. It was a pleasant, relaxing morning, until we started to leave for home.

Since it was so cold, Lisa went for the car while Dave and I waited inside at the Fenway Entrance. Sure enough, we watched as the Sunday crowds began arriving. I heard a cell phone ring and, thinking it was mine, reached into my pocket. Nothing. I checked my other pocket and purse. No phone. Deciding I must have left it on the café table, I told Dave I’d be right back and headed for the café. I passed the line for the coat check-in that was now long and soon found myself dodging baby carriages. By the time I arrived at the turn for the café it was hidden by a flood of people coming from the Huntington Avenue entrance and I missed it.

My claustrophobia kicked in and I felt like I was being swamped by a giant wave so, as soon as possible, I turned right and passed through several exhibit halls that were a bit less crowded. But, after about ten minutes of being bumped and jostled, none of three doorways looked familiar and I realized I had absolutely no idea how to get back. I searched for a guard but could not find one. I must have looked lost because a very tall man stopped and asked me something but, due to his thick accent, I could not understand a word. He seemed to want to help but when he pointed to his handheld map, I think he said, “What floor this?” Clearly he was as lost as me. A second man, who’d been watching us, tapped me on the arm, pointed behind us and said, “Sign”. I thanked them all as well as I could, and headed toward the sign until I found a familiar door and beyond that, the information area. I felt pure relief until I saw Dave standing there, looking more than a bit frustrated.

I knew he had questions, but I just shook my head, handed him my purse, and pointed to the café. He reminded me Lisa was waiting and I fairly ran the short distance. I checked with the cafe manager - no phone found. At that point I began thinking about all the information I keep on that phone and found the nerve somehow to interrupt the four total strangers now trying to enjoy their lunch at the same table where we’d been seated. When I explained what’d happened, they all reacted immediately, standing up and looking around and under the table. Both women assured me they had misplaced their phones, more than once. After a few minutes, one man asked if I wanted him to call my phone. With a mock serious expression, his friend said, “You may not want to give him that number, he’s an insurance salesman.”

The salesman called my phone and walked around the cafe, listening. Again, nothing. Just as hope was flagging, I felt a tap on my shoulder. Dave held my handbag aloft and said, “It’s vibrating.” To give him credit, that’s all he said. And yes, the missing phone was at the bottom of my purse - turned screen down, blue case showing, covered by a notebook the exact shade of blue. Embarrassed, I thanked everybody and started to leave. Then I turned back and, with a nod in my husband’s direction, I said to the salesman, “I might need that life insurance after all.”

As we drove home, we all marveled at how many caring people had been willing to help a stranger that day. With today’s negative headlines, it’s sometimes easy to forget that there are some very nice people out there.

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Before Ancient Temples Fall

Before ancient temples fall
I just want to say:
You gave it your all--
There was no other way.

It's not that you fell
Out of fashion, out of mode,
It's just that they don't understand
How much you know.

They always think
What is new is what is best
But, for one, I must say
Looking back is the test

Of what is real,
What holds its worth,
And, of course, what is true.
'til one considers this
All else is forgotten, too.




(Liz Ciampa; March, 2016).

Cottage by the Sea, A Prelude

By Law Hamilton

She looked out the window as the snow started to fall. The sounds of other people’s day swirled around her like the snow being blown by the wind. She looked at the clock. He still had half an hour to arrive. Her gaze goes back to the window. The storm was not too dark, as the street lights had not come on.  She rolled the wheelchair to the window and raised the blinds for a better view. She did not hear her son enter the room.The hearing aids emitted high pitched frequencies too much for her to wear them, currently they are on the nightstand.

Unaware that her son had said hello, she demands “Take me to the cottage by the sea.” when she sees him enter the room.

“I’m glad to see you too, let me get you your ears,” he replies.

“I want to watch the snow fall into the waves.”

* * *

One Wednesday a month, Doug would take his mother on an outing - away from the nursing home and spend time with her beyond his caretaker role. She was not bound to the wheelchair, yet. But it was easier for her to use for any distance and she was in it more often. She could still stand up and get into his car. But he knew the day was coming when that would not happen. Sometimes they would take a “Sunday drive” to see the foliage change or holiday decorations in neighborhoods that were not familiar.

He liked to take her out to lunch, to give her a change of scenery and a good meal. He loved to hear her reminisce about the Thanksgivings of her childhood and other familial tales that she remembered so clearly.  The stories that were now decades old, he could recite them by heart, seemed new and fun now as she retold them with renewed life in her eyes.The hijinx of kids skipping school to go for a swim on a nice day sounds like something his son would do today.  Well, not in the snow - they would be getting out early or so Doug suspected.

“Mom, how about a nice lunch in front of a warm fire?” Doug asks. He and his wife had found a charming restaurant with a wood fireplace, not something his Mom would experience at the nursing home.

“No. We must go to the cottage,” she replied.

The Poinsettia and the Easter Lily

by Mary Higgins

They sat on the window sill, side by side.

one loved the sun, the other from it shied.

One being red, the other was white

one sat from December, night after night.

From two different worlds, they arrived at my door

each one wrapped in its season’s decor.

Poinsettia and lily, next to each other

carefully cared for by my mother.

Just seeing the two intrigued everyone

wedged between ivy in bright morning sun.

Lending color and cheer to a bare sitting room

and chasing away, the rain’s gray and gloom.

Only one would survive a summer sky to see

the other, wither, remembered by you and me

So which would it be that would fade first from sight?

I expected the red, turns out, ‘twas the white.

all rights reserved Ⓒ Mary Higgins 2016

Hurry Summer

by Lauraine Alberetti Lombara

Wrinkly and crabby

Lazy and edgy

Oh! How I long for the sun.

I strive to be happy and giving and caring

Not be the witch I’ve become.

Thus I try not to linger

 While stretching my finger

 Which points to the truth

That I know….

I’m here and I’m living

And God make me willing

To get up, get ready and go.